search to find the node to replace the one being removed, restructure to first
remove the replacement node and correct the parent pointers around it, and then
let the all-cases code at the end deal with the parent of the deleted node,
making it point to the replacement node. This removes one or two conditional
branches.
Reviewed by: markj
Tested by: pho
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D24845